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Controlling our Narrative

Monday, November 11, 2013

Let us all stop being manipulated. Let us stop our mouths from watering every time the bell rings. Let us stop being knee-jerk consumers of 24-hour news channels, internet crazes, and instant feeds.

Let us begin dictating our own agenda. Let us decide for ourselves what is worthy of our attention. Let us raise the bar in inter- and intra-communal discussions.

For every video showing a Taliban beating some lady, let us refrain from commenting at the behest of wider society. For every news story highlighting the plight of Saudi women and their prohibition from driving, let us turn our backs on outside forces dictating the relevancy of certain issues (and thus the irrelevancy of so many other). For every video of a Saudi beating an expat worker, let us avoid being goaded into an apologetic response merely to appease our host nations. For every nutjob Muslim highlighted for acting like a nutjob, let us stop validating the highlighters by psychoanalyzing the nutjob.

Let us stop digging ourselves deeper into our hole by continuously answering, ‘When did you stop beating your wife?’ Just as we understand the idiocy in replying to that question, we must also understand the madness in responding to every sensationalized whoop and holler highlighted in our newsfeeds.

We need to begin framing our own context and establishing our own position instead of responding to foolish viral videos and cultural phenomena that serve to only further substantiate prejudices and biases. Instead of fostering an enlightened alternative, we are only nourishing the degenerate beasts of shock journalism, snuff entertainment, and socio-cultural rubbernecking.

Must we have an opinion on every shmuck getting her fifteen minutes of fame? Must we demean ourselves with water cooler discussions about the latest video phenom on Youtube?

Or maybe we can choose the high-road and become prophetic, not only in our daily worship, but in our consumption of daily culture. Let us stop shrouding these instances of cultural flatulence in faux discussions of morality and ethics and instead, insist on meaningful conversations rich with substance and import, consistent with our agenda and beliefs.

Monday, November 11, 2013 | Labels: Media, Modernity, Muslims, social problems, Western Culture |   6 Comments  

Egypt: I told you so

Friday, July 12, 2013

I’ll humbly join the chorus of know-it-all’s who are not so humbly declaring to the world that they predicted the unfortunate fate of ‘democratic’ Egypt. While the current turmoil and chaos is very saddening, it definitely is not surprising. Two years ago, based on the experiences of Pakistan and Turkey, I envisaged such a scenario where the military would intervene. I must admit that Turkey has shown greater maturity and resilience in their standing up to the military, but Pakistan has remained true to form with the military still calling all the shots.

Truth be told, Egypt has a long way to go before they can reach the depths of Pakistan.  To reach such ignominy they would have to vote in a president, some sleazeball like El-Baradei, who would run the country for three years before stepping down under corruption charges, then return to power 4 years later before getting overthrown in a military coup, then go into exile in Saudi Arabia for 8 years, and then finally return and somehow ‘win’ elections to make him the leader of the country for the third time (I just summed up Pakistan’s current Prime Minister’s career arc). Yeah, Egypt has a looong way to go.

Welcome to the big boy’s table, Egypt…where Pakistan has a monopoly on adventures in farcical democracies.

On a more serious note, I've read countless analyses of the situation in Egypt, but the most astute and comprehensive breakdown is this post by Tariq Ramadan.  Well worth your time...

Friday, July 12, 2013 | Labels: Egypt, Pakistan, politics |   2 Comments  

30 million by Four

Friday, July 5, 2013

I recently listened to this very enlightening podcast episode by Lexicon Valley titled '30 million by 4'. It details a very interesting research that highlights the importance of engaging your young children in conversation. Anyone with preschool children would greatly benefit from the 20 minutes or so.

30 million by 4 podcast

And I won't tell you what the title means...you'll have to listen to the podcast to figure it out. :-P

Friday, July 05, 2013 | Labels: homeschooling, raising kids |   7 Comments  

When Muslims Intermarry

Friday, April 26, 2013

I recently returned from a short two-week trip to the US and one of the more common discussions I had with family and friends was about the future of Muslims in the West. I plan on posting my thoughts in some upcoming posts, so let me start things off with a very real concern: Intermarriage.

As Muslims being to assimilate and integrate, I find myself not so worried about some of the more recurring issues such as hijab or drugs or aqeedah – don’t get me wrong, they aren’t trivial, but they aren’t likely to result in offspring completely leaving the religion. On the other hand, the increasing rate of Muslims marrying outside our religion is just such an issue.

What so many Muslims may see as an acceptable practice from the Shariah point of view (where in fact a man marrying a Christian or Jewish woman is sanctioned, as they are People of the Book), is in my mind a very dangerous practice that will all too often result in future generations essentially leaving Islam.

As if the pressures of modern Western culture are not strenuous enough on a young Muslim, adding to the mix the life-long presence of a non-Muslim mother is, needless to say, very harmful.

And so I found this Washington Post article quite timely as it reinforced my recent concerns.

One interesting discussion I had was with my brother-in-law, who suggested that if I wanted to study the future of Muslims in the West, I ought to look at the Jews when they first arrived to the US. At the time of their arrival, they had a most similar makeup to us Muslims, in that they had relatively high levels of religious observation, a formal law like our Shariah, and restrictions on intermarriage.

And what I found was quite disturbing. When they first arrived in the late 19th century, Jews were intermarrying at a 4% rate. After nearly a century, their intermarriage has skyrocketed to nearly 50%. And this is from a religion in which intermarriage is strictly forbidden!

And as a consequence, as more Muslim men decide to intermarry, Muslim women will be left with little choice but to follow suit. This article from Al-Jazeera documents this inevitable rise in women marrying outside the faith.

Now some of you may be thinking, ‘How does this affect me or my children? They are being raised in a strictly observant household where intermarriage is not an option.’ That may be true, but can the same be said for two or three generations down the line?
 

Friday, April 26, 2013 | Labels: American Islam, clash of civilizations, East meets West, Muslims, raising kids, Western Culture |   6 Comments  

Anyone there?

Thursday, March 28, 2013

Hellooo...Anyone out there?!

I'm really not sure why I haven't posted anything for quite some time. Sure, the kids are homeschooling which has kept me busy. Also, I have limited access to the Net during the day, so that's killed some of my momentum. Anyways, I recently returned from a short trip to the US and I feel the need to put up some of my thoughts.

Let's start off with this link to a nice BBC article on the importance of boredom. I had written my thoughts on this very same topic some while back.

Anyways, sorry for the extended hibernation. I hope to get back to putting pen to paper and sharing some of my thoughts...

Thursday, March 28, 2013 | Labels: About Me, raising kids |   8 Comments  

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