I am convinced that too many of us living in industrialized nations have lost sight of what it truly means to have trust in our Sustainer. With our guaranteed salaries and medical insurance and pension plans, our lives are meticulously laid out to safeguard against every possible curve ball thrown our way.
We have assured ourselves that our Rizq (sustenance), present and future, will come primarily from our own efforts. The more we struggle and strive, the more we shall accomplish and achieve. Sure, our belief system dictates that everything comes from Allah (swt), but our attitudes expose our hypocrisy.
Our provisions are not coming from Allah (swt), but from our paychecks.
Our medical services are not provided by Allah (swt), but by our health care provider.
Our homes and automobiles are not protected by Allah (swt), but by our insurance companies.
We feel secure since protection is provided by the police force and fire department.
We needn’t worry about losing our credit cards as the companies have policies protecting against fraud and theft.
And with everything guaranteed, insured, and protected, where has Allah (swt) gone in our daily lives?
Don’t get me wrong. None of what I mentioned is inherently wrong. They are merely ways we implement the Prophetic advice to ‘tie the camel’. But the problem arises when we become so consumed with securing the camel that we build a fence around it, install a camera system, and hire a security force.
Where did the second part of the famous Prophet guidance go (‘and trust in Allah’)?
We are so busy with establishing safety nets and emergency funds that we have forgotten the more essential principle of Trust in Allah. These devices are desperate measures created by a desperate civilization that has lost all ties with its Creator and Sustainer.
Yet, we are falling in full step behind them, mimicking their every act, in creating a lifestyle safe and secure from the randomness of Divine ‘interference’.
So instead of expending our energies towards higher goals and objectives, we have become infatuated with tying down the proverbial camel.
Modern society dictates that not only must we provide for today and tomorrow, but we must engage all our energies into securing next year and the year after. Not only must we strive to provide for our family’s basic necessities, but we must save up for college funds, expensive weddings, and retirement costs.
Allah (swt) will not provide, our actions scream. Our 401(K) will.
And with our trust in our Creator withering away, we feel a greater urgency to incessantly pursue our Rizq - all the while forgetting that our Rizq is actually running after us.
“And how many a living creature is there that takes no thought of its own sustenance; God provides for it as [He provides] for you - since He alone is all-hearing, all-knowing.” (29:60)
“And there is no living creature on earth but depends for its sustenance on God” (11:6)
Let us focus our efforts towards that which matters and leave our sustenance to the One who has sustained everything in this world since its inception.
Allow me to share a tale that nicely captures the essence of our sustenance and how, regardless of what we do, it runs after us:
In a remote village, a young man was asked by his gentle elderly mother to eat his breakfast before leaving home. Bursting with energy and in a rush to begin his day, he declined and scurried off on his way. Being the caring mother she was, she quickly ordered her young daughter to follow after the boy with the plate of food to ensure he ate it. Said the loving mother, ‘Do not let him see you, lest he reject it again. Simply leave the food nearby, so when he becomes hungry, he will eat it at his leisure.’
The sister surreptitiously followed her elder sibling through the forest all the way to the local river, where she watched as her brother jumped in for a morning swim. After he got out, he stretched out under a nearby tree and proceeded to take a nap. Figuring he would be hungry after his nap, she laid the plate of food some distance away from the tree and returned home, certain that her brother would eventually find his breakfast.
Coincidentally, a group of no-good hooligans were convening nearby and discussing plans for their next act of thievery. While arguing back and forth, the gang leader smelled the scent of fresh food and followed it back to the same plate. Desperate for a home-cooked meal , the lot of them eagerly decided to share the food amongst themselves, until the leader paused and reflected. He shared his concern that the plate could potentially be a devious plot concocted by a rival gang.
‘The food may contain poison’, he grumbled. ‘Scout around and see if you find one of them spying on us.’
They ran about looking for anyone hiding away, until they came upon the young man sleeping under the tree.
They immediately pounced upon him and carried him back to their leader, who ferociously demanded the boy confess to setting up the poisonous plate of food. The young man repeatedly denied it until the leader decided it best to ‘test’ the food by force-feeding the hapless lad.
They made him eat every last morsel and eagerly awaited for the poison to kick in. Soon thereafter, they realized that nothing of the sort would occur and so dejectedly beat the boy one last time and went on their way.
The boy limped his way home and upon seeing his bruised face, his mother shrieked, ‘What happened my son?!’
With half a smile, he admitted, ‘Dear mother, my Lord had decreed my sustenance in the form of your hearty breakfast. One way or another I was destined to eat it. I declined the choice to eat it by your blessed hands, so Allah willed for me to eat it by the punches and kicks of those less savory.'
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Salaam brother,
There's always a danger of someone taking something along too far. I believe one of the hadiths asked Muslims to do everything in moderation. Just as someone can go crazy running after the duniya, one can also become a bum and neglect duties towards family and self.
In this age, "tying the camel" means different things to different people.
Good reminder! It made me think of Jesus' words in Matthew 6 especially verse 33.
31So do not worry, saying, 'What shall we eat?' or 'What shall we drink?' or 'What shall we wear?' 32For the pagans run after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them. 33But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well. 34Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own.
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@Mezba, very true about going to extremes, but don't you think that current-day society has taken 'tying the camel' to an extreme??
Yes, it means different things to different people. But c'mon bro, don't you agree that we, as a society, have become obsessed with running after our provisions.
And I'm not even talking about the greed factor. I think so many God-fearing folks who eschew greed and dunya are chasing their provisions out of fear and uncertainty.
@Susanne, what a beautiful excerpt that sums up my entire post!
"But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness,"
That's *exactly* what I'm trying to get at...thank you for your input.
Assalamu alaikum,
Jazak'Allah ul Khair for this important reminder! I think this overinflated sense of security prevalent in the West regarding one's livelihood, health, access to public services, etc can be traced back to two things.
Believers understand the reality of fate and destiny (Al Qada wal Qadr). While we humans are in control of our actions, we have no control over many other events and circumstances happening in our lives. One day we are secure in having a well paying job and access to good health care, the next day we could easily find out we've lost all this (through getting laid off or fired).
We think our access to medical services will keep us healthy, but then we're struck by an incurable disease or by a disease that our health care plan may not adequately cover!
All humans undergo so many trials and tribulations in life (both good and bad) that Allah is ultimately making us undergo in order to test our remembrance of and loyalty to Him.
And many of these trials are not under our control. Even the outcome of our actions is not under our control. I may be the hardest working employee at my workplace, but then I run the risk of getting laid off for whatever reason.
So the first thing believers should remember is that we are not always in control of everything happening to us in life! With that realization we should then seek Allah's Help and Guidance through all our affairs in life (not make endure hardships that we cannot bear, helping us through our times of distress).
The second thing is that when we come to this realization of Allah being in control of everything, then we should avoid worrying about the long term future. Like you said our constant worrying about long term security (retirement pension, kids' college fun)makes us become too absorbed with Dunya affairs because we think without future savings we are lost. I think this fear is also based on aversion to poverty. We should put our trust in Allah (SWT) to rectify all our affairs and give us peace and contentment with whatever we have in life. Also we should be like the wise person the Rasul (SAWS) explained about as being the person always remembering death. How do any of us know how long we'll be alive in this world? How secure can we be in believing that any of us will be alive tomorrow? With remembrance of death comes remembrance of the Akhirah over Dunya.
@Susanne
Thank you for that Biblical quote. It proves how the revelations all emanate from a common source.
Sorry for the typo that should be kids college FUND not FUN LOL! We certainly shouldn't be paying for them to disregard studying in order to simply socialize (although I've heard of some parents doing that unfortunately)!
Interesting story about the boy. Food for thought.
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